Back to school

I have always wanted a book on parenting. I know they exist but not in the form I would like. My perfect parenting book would say

On Friday 14th August 2006, you must wean your child.

On Wednesday 22nd April 2008, you can let your child walk to school on his/her own

If your child is not potty-trained by 2nd January 2000. you need to consult your GP.

Well you get the idea.

backtoschool

A couple of weeks ago I asked my 13 year old son if he needed anything in readiness for the back to school. Did his uniform still fit? It was bought relatively recently after we relocated. Was his bag still OK for him? And so on.

“Yes Mum”

“Are you sure?”

“Yes Mum”

Are you absolutely sure?

“Yes Mum”

Yesterday, I asked him to get his uniform out and ready. He did this with a bit of a grumble. I usually do this for him but am aware he is getting older and at some point presumably will leave home and need to know how to organise himself.

When his Dad returned from work, my son announced that he would have to go to the supermarket because his shirt and trousers did not fit. I insisted he showed up. He put them on in a strop and they fitted perfectly.

His Dad can no longer drop him off at school every day due to his commute to his new job. We gave our son a bus timetable. He has used the bus before sometimes but for some reason, seemed very unsure. So Him Indoors took my son out and showed him exactly where to catch the bus, where to get off and so on. He returned in a happier frame of mind.

His Dad taught him how to iron and he declared that is was actually quite good fun.

Today after two calls and one shake, he got up and ready. He looked so smart and grown up. I made him breakfast. I brushed his hair. I hugged him. I checked he was OK and had everything he needed.

He set off with me calling out for him to have a nice day and reminding him that I loved him. I could sense him saying “For goodness sake, Mother, go in. You are such an embarrassment”

He will be OK. Of course he will. And yet I love him and I still find it hard to let him go back to school sometimes.

If you do happen to see that book on parenting, let me know. The one with the specific dates. I would like to get this parenting thing right.

What are your thoughts and feelings as the children head back to school?

5 Comments

  1. bloggermummylauren September 2, 2014 / 8:04 pm

    A book like that would be handy!
    Wow a teenage son who enjoys ironing, you are doing this parenting right!
    Hope he had a good first day back at school. My youngest started for first time this morning, emotional!
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  2. Merlinda Little (@pixiedusk) September 2, 2014 / 9:46 pm

    I am so scared. I am totally clueless of the education system here in the UK as its totally different from ours. I also wish I can get ‘that’ book and it would tell me specifically what to do cuz I am in the dark =( #magicmoments
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  3. Louise Edwards September 3, 2014 / 8:41 pm

    the first day at school always feels a bit emotional to me as you know that you will blink and it will be end of term again and another year over! a lovely post xxx
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  4. Maddy@writingbubble September 4, 2014 / 10:47 am

    Sounds like you are doing a great job to me and that your son will be just fine! It is scary when kids move on to the next stage but I’ve often noticed kids walking into school just fine while the parents hover around all anxious and emotional! You don’t need a book, honestly, you’re doing fine!
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  5. Sara (@mumturnedmom) September 9, 2014 / 2:35 am

    My 5yo just started kindergarten and I watched him disappear into school without so much as a backward glance, and although part of me wished he seemed sadder at leaving me, mainly I was glad that he is growing up into such a confident boy. It is tough watching them stake these steps, but it sounds like you are doing all the right things, although that book would be handy 🙂
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