I remember how my late Mum used to sing the song “You don’t bring me flowers anymore” Dad was not great at treating her to flowers. If she had asked for them, she would have had the finest but he was not spontaneously romantic.
Him Indoors is like that too. So imagine my surprise when he walked in yesterday with a huge bouquet of the most beautiful pink roses. Apparently he thinks I deserve them for putting up with him. So my first reason to be cheerful to record this week is that he does still bring me flowers 17 years after getting together.
It seems to have been a long week and I don’t like the dark afternoons or the soggy days. No wonder we need all the fairy lights at Christmas to brighten our hearts a little. In a way recording our reasons to be cheerful is like putting the fairy lights on to focus on brightness and colour.
Here are some of this week’s bright moments
1. My son turned 15 and we had a happy day with home-made cake and the inevitable Doctor Who and Flash watching sessions. He does not ask for much but he got what he wanted. It is odd to see him starting to tower over his Dad and to see the little moustache in the making. He is a beautiful boy inside and out. He will do fine in the world. I just need to convince him of that.
2. My daughter is amusing me with her manifestos on life. She is definitely a blogger in the making! Today she started the task which she loves every year of making fine Christmas decorations out of cheap and cheerful materials.
3. My youngest son is spending more time to me snuggled up on the sofa. I found him researching something the over day and was so impressed as it was a really deep scientific subject. He is also very politically aware in a way that I don’t remember being at the age of just 10.
4. Him Indoors and I have had some lovely days together sorting out a few bits and pieces and taking long walks. He is shortly going to make one of his wonderful dinners after getting in from his late shift.
5. I am alive and I have a great family and firm friends. The awful events in the world this week make me reflect how important it is to honour and look after those who add to our lives past, present and future. I resolve to try my utmost to do so.
6. Home education is becoming more relaxed which weirdly means we are actually learning more. Great and fun experiments on acid rain and volume this week. The more chilled I get about it the more excited I get and that leads to the children also being engaged. So simple really but takes some getting used to too.
7. Finally I did more than I thought I could this week putting myself up for a rejection that did not come. How easy it is to assume the worst. Here’s to assuming the best as a more positive way to approach life.
You don’t bring me flowers anymore. Oh yes you do!