When people mention medical negligence, the first response tends to be that a hospital or doctor has made a mistake that has affected someone’s health. However, anyone within the healthcare profession can get things wrong, including opticians, care homes, physiotherapists, pharmacists and even dentists.

How Can a Dentist Make a Mistake?

Dentists in the UK are very highly trained, and you would not expect them to make a mistake. Unfortunately for the patient, sometimes they do get it wrong and the results can be worse than you may think. Extracting the wrong tooth can easily happen if not enough care is taken.

If a tooth breaks while being taken out, the dentist should not continue without taking an X-ray of the roots that are left. If they do carry on and do not have the skill or experience to get the rest of the tooth extracted successfully, you may be entitled to make a compensation claim for medical negligence. Consulting with firms such as The Medical Negligence Experts who offer free over the phone advice would be the best way for you to then determine if your claim is feasible, as then you’re not paying any expenses before you know if you should move forward.

Most extractions take place without any problems as long as the dentist has carried out a thorough examination to be clear that a tooth does need taking out. Substandard care at this time could lead to the nerves in your gum being damaged, meaning you could be entitled to make a medical negligence claim.

If they are filling a tooth for you and slip with the drill, you could get a nasty cut on your cheek, which may even leave a permanent scar. If they do not remove all the decay before putting in the filling material, the decay will continue to spread and cause further problems. If your dentist makes a mistake when filling one or more of your teeth, you may want to speak with medical negligence solicitors about claiming compensation.

If you are undergoing cosmetic dental surgery and your crowns are poorly fitted, they can become a food trap and cause discomfort. Veneers that are not correctly fitted can fall off and an ill-fitting bridge becomes difficult to clean and can cause further decay. Any cosmetic procedure that is carried out without enough care and attention, especially if it causes you more pain and problems with your teeth, could entitle you to make medical negligence claims UK.

Apart from checking your teeth at each check-up, your dentist should also be looking for signs of gum disease and oral cancer. Unless you have visited your GP with some of the symptoms of oral cancer, it is far more likely your dentist will be the first to spot this possibility.  If they ignore or overlook the signs and fail to alert you to the disease, this could be classed as medical malpractice, for which you can make a compensation claim.

Before a dentist carries out your treatment, they should explain exactly what they’re intending to do and inform you of any risks or side effects associated with the procedure.

Making Your Compensation Claim

Making a compensation claim for any form of medical negligence is a legal process and you’ll benefit from having the best medical negligence solicitors on your side. Personal injury claims tend to fall into specific groups, such as road traffic accident, accidents at work, accidents in public places, and medical negligence. Lawyers usually specialise in one particular area, so rather than use an expert in road traffic accidents, for instance, you need medical negligence lawyers when your dentist gets it wrong.

Even though insurance companies usually settle compensation claims, they will not just take your word that a mistake has been made. They will want evidence to prove your claim, and they are looking for a more than 50% chance that their client mistreated you. They will achieve this by speaking to other experts in the dentistry field to see if they would have treated you any differently, and ask whether the other experts agree that the care you received was below par. If the independent expert says they would have treated you exactly the same, then it’s unlikely you’ll be able to make a compensation claim.

How Much Could Your Claim Be Worth?

No one can answer that question at the outset of your claim, as there are too many different aspects to be considered. Your pain and suffering is used for the main part of the calculation, but then there are also any extra costs you have incurred, which also have to be accounted for. There could also be lost wages if you have had to take time off to attend extra appointments. Each victim’s personal circumstances are different making each claim unique. The only thing you can be sure of is expert medical negligence solicitors will ensure you are awarded the maximum amount for your situation.

It is a sad statistic that nearly just under half of all marriages end in divorce. It means you literally have just under a 50% chance of your marriage working. It is a scary thought, but one that is becoming all the more apparent in the past few years. The main reason a relationship breaks down is due to lack of communication, commitment, or people just simply drift apart. To make matters worse, there’s usually a children at the center who is going to have to deal with all the emotions of having their parents separated, as well as needing your constant time and attention when you might not actually be able to give it to them. So, to make life as a single parent a little bit easier on you, and on your child, here are some tips that we think you’re going to need. It’s important to remember that you’re not alone, and there are millions of single parents doing an amazing job, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t either!


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Manage The Divorce

The divorce is most likely going to be one of the longest and most mentally challenging times of your life. There will be so many setbacks that will make you feel as though you can’t live your normal life, or even ones that stop you from moving on and start a new life. Unless you’re really lucky, and you broke up in a civil way and both of you prefer to get things out of the way with, then you’re going to be spending a lot of time with your head in your hands wondering how you’re going to get through this. Well, one of the best ways of doing so is by using companies such as Austin Kemp divorce solicitors. They will be able to help you through the process to make sure you have the best outcome possible. The process of a divorce will always be long, and the pressures of which can radiate into your own personal life. It’s important to remember that whilst you’re going through this and it might be causing you grievance, you need to think about your child and how they’re going to be feeling. Try not to let any emotions spill out into home life, and definitely make sure you don’t do any slandering against your partner. The last thing you need is for your child to grow up with a negative view of relationships in general.

Manage Your Time

Time is money, and it definitely is when it comes to being a single parent. Suddenly you will have gone from not really worrying about what you’re spending, to worrying about every little purchase and whether you’re going to have enough money to get through the month. Well, we’re going to discuss money in the next paragraph, so now we will discuss how you should manage your time if you want to be successful at the single parent life. With no one around to help around the house, getting simple little things like the ironing done can be an absolute nightmare. But at the same time, you don’t want to use the time that your child is at your partners to be doing house work and stressing more. Try to make sure everything is done within an hour or two after they’ve gone to bed. It’ll then leave you with time to relax and unwind before going to be. As they get older, you can get them to help around the house to try and make things a little easier for you. Finally, if there’s one thing we know for sure to be true, it’s that you need to make sure you’re giving yourself time to step away from the single parent life. Time to see your friends and tuck into some nice food, or maybe even a cocktail or two. They’re going to be your release from the constraints you may feel in other areas of your life. Not to say that having a child means your life is limited, but if you let being a single parent become all you are, it’ll be hard for you to have some sort of outlet when things get a little stressful.

Manage Your Money

This is one of the main things that you need to learn to try and do. Money management, no matter what point in your life you’re at is hard. There’s so many factors to consider, but when you’re a single mom everything seems to become amplified a little. Suddenly the money you once had spare is now going towards trying to raise a child, whilst at the same time trying to keep a roof over their head and many other things. So, the best thing you can do is make sure you’re making smart money decisions to keep you going. If you know you’re a sucker for treating them to a McDonald’s once a week rather than cooking dinner, cut it down to once a month. You might be reading this and thinking, it’s only a few pounds here and there, but at the end of the month it truly does add up. Make sure you’re getting the best deals on things such as household bills which could be costing you a fortune. Use comparison websites to make sure you’re on the cheapest tariffs, and don’t be afraid to buy home brand things rather than splashing the cash to try and save that extra bit of money.

Manage Issues

Coming out of a divorce is not easy, and it might not always be smooth sailing. It is often the case that many disagreements happen over who gets to see the child when and what not. It’s so important that you keep your child at the forefront of your mind when you’re fighting over things like this. As they get older they’ll start to notice the divide, and will definitely notice any arguments. Make sure you’re always compromising to get the best for your child. If it’s things like financial issues you’re worried about, then preparation is always key. Plenty of savings will make sure you’re always comfortable, and always have something to fall back on should something go wrong.

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My own mum died of Ovarian cancer so I was very keen to feature Helen from Sew Helen who is using her skills to develop a business and also to help charity following the loss of her beloved mom. We all have our own ways of handling grief but it is interesting how many of us rethink our own lives following loss and do more good in the world realising that life really is short.




Can you tell us a little about your childhood and teenage years?


I am really lucky to have had a lovely childhood and uneventful teenage years.  Although I didn’t think about it at the time, looking back makes me appreciate how fortunate we were.


I lived with Mom, Dad and my older brother by two years and although we didn’t have much I had some lovely friends and a small close family. Memories from Christmas and birthdays were of handmade gifts and one year Dad made my brother & I wooden string puppets and Mom made the matching outfits – we still have these now over 40 years later.


I left school and went to sixth form to study A levels although at that time I still didn’t know what I wanted to do for a career.


What career did you pursue and why?


When I left college, I started work as a Veterinary Nurse. Although I loved the job I knew this wouldn’t be a long term career. By chance a lady I worked with mentioned a new course in Birmingham awaiting validation for direct entry Midwifery. As soon as I heard about this I knew this would be my chosen career. I had never wanted to be a General Nurse and Iwas looking forward to working with healthy women going through a normal physiological event.


I undertook my training and qualified as a Registered Midwife in 1993. My career has evolved from normal antenatal, intrapartum & postnatal care to high risk pregnancies and for the past 15 years I have been supporting & caring for families when a difference has been found with their baby. I also perform detailed fetal cardiac ultrasound scans in my own clinics and alongside Paediatric Cardiologists – I am still amazed at the detail we can obtain on little babies hearts whilst still in the womb.


How did you learn to sew?


I have grown up sewing and worked alongside Mom as a little girl. She worked from home taking in dressmaking orders and so it was only natural that I also made clothes for my teddies and dolls. Over the years, and with Mom’s guidance, I made my own clothes and soft furnishings for my home and have continued sewing most of my life – 50 years in March! I have tried most forms of textile art and recently returned to embroidery and applique.


What health issues have you had to cope with?


I have two boys, born in 2004 & 2008, and my health had always been excellent until 2011 when I felt some lumps in my neck. After a visit to the GP and blood tests I was diagnosed with Auto-immune Thyroiditis & nodules in my Thyroid gland – a fairly common hormone-based condition for women of a certain age! After a year of monitoring and blood tests the nodules had changed slightly and I asked to be referred to an Endocrinologist as literature I had read stated that any nodules should be biopsied. Four biopsies later (2 failed) I had a result that gave a 10% chance of Thyroid Cancer.


My treatment included unilateral thyroidectomy on 8.10.12 which confirmed Thyroid Cancer, 2 weeks later I had the rest of my thyroid gland removed and underwent Radioactive Iodine treatment to destroy any remaining cells at the beginning of December 2012. I started Thyroxine medication after the radiation treatment and will remain on this drug for the rest of my life.


I am now 5 years clear of cancer and it took a long time to get my Thyroxin levels right – I have probably only felt well for the last year and a half.


Please tell us about the loss of your mum and her legacy?


Health issues aside, I was content with my life until February 2015 when my Mom had a severe bout of abdominal pain & vomiting and attended Accident and Emergency  – to our shock she was diagnosed with ascites (fluid in her abdomen), bowel obstruction & after a CT scan also an enlarged ovary. Fortunately, on this occasion the bowel obstruction cleared and she didn’t require surgery. However, from my medical background I knew this wasn’t a good prognosis.


A couple of weeks later she met the Consultant Oncologist and following a Multi-Disciplinary Team Meeting Mom was told that she had advanced Ovarian Cancer. It had spread throughout her abdomen and surgery was not an option. She was offered Chemotherapy which may have prolonged her life for a short while, but she decided straight away that she didn’t want to spend her remaining time by being unwell from treatment. Mom also had the sad memories of nursing her own mom with the same condition 50 years earlier.


66 days later, on 4th May 2015, Mom died peacefully at home with Dad, my brother and I at her side.


Having always sewn, and after making remembrance pictures for some close friends shortly after Mom had died, I started thinking how I could use my sewing skills to create a small business in memory of Mom and at the same time raise money and awareness around Ovarian Cancer.


Just Sew Helen was created with the underlying principle to raise awareness of the symptoms of Ovarian Cancer and to make donations to charity from my sales.

Describe your business


I design, create and sell textile art incorporating applique, hand embroidery and sewing.


Most of my items are remembrance gifts and over time my work has evolved to include Baby Loss gifts. I also make keepsakes such as cushions & pictures to preserve children’s drawings. I love doing all types of products and am also very happy to receive custom orders.


I had a massive learning curve researching handcrafted business development, online selling, book keeping, distance selling regulations, web design and marketing. I continue to work as a Midwife and am developing the business for the time when I can retire from the NHS.


I currently sell on Etsy & via my own website and promote my products on social media including Twitter, Instagram and to a lesser degree, Facebook.


My business is evolving and the most popular items I make are Baby Loss gifts & I have lots of plans to expand the Angel Baby range. I’m keen to to create items from treasured fabrics such as clothing or blankets and would love to design and make baby loss burial gowns suitable for little ones born too early.


I am slowly developing my blog to include the topics on Women’s Health, Pregnancy & Loss, Bereavement, Textiles & Sewing and a Handcrafted Business.



Do you support charity and if so which ones and how?


I have chosen to make donations to Target Ovarian Cancer – a UK charity working to improve early diagnosis, research and support to women with Ovarian Cancer


I made the decision early on that I would make a donation to the charity each time I made a sale, from every platform I sell on. My husband also does sponsored events and donates to the same charity.


Recently, I have been accepted by the charity to undertake information reviews and plan to contact the other main charities for women’s cancers to offer my services.


Using social media, I have an ideal target audience to raise awareness of the symptoms of ovarian cancer as the majority of users in the handcrafting community are women.



If you could give one tip to someone who is experiencing grief, what  would it be?


There is no time limit nor right way to grieving. It is individual but, over time, if is affecting how you function on a day to day basis seek help from professionals.

If you could give one bit of business advice to a woman what would it be and why?


If you have an idea just do it and don’t put it off. It is so true that life can be short and there is nothing to lose if you do your research before investing a lot of time or money.


Google is a great tool and there are many online forums that can help with setting up a small business.


I work part time and one day would like to leave the NHS and continue my own business – it has suited me to take it slowly and I have learnt so much about web design, distance selling regulations, social media, postage & customer service.


How would you encourage a woman to experiment with creativity?


I would encourage a woman to choose an art that they love and again, Google and YouTube are excellent resources for tutorials. When they have mastered the basic techniques they can then develop their own unique style.


If you could recommend one book to a woman what would it be and why?


Marti – A Coward’s Chronicles


I found this a hard question as, although I read a lot, I don’t currently read many books. However, this book has stayed with me for many years and occasionally comes to the forefront of my mind.


This book is inspiring about a woman who survived a difficult childhood, her career and her battle with cancer. She tells her story with humour and strength and a positive outlook right up until she lost her battle with cancer.


If you could recommend one website apart from your own to a woman what would it be and why?


I recommend the website https://whileshenaps.com by Abby Glassenberg


I came across this website from a sewing point of view, but it interested me as Abby doesn’t just focus on the craft side. I named and designed my business/website to be sewing based but not too specific as I envisaged changes as things evolved. I was concerned that my site wasn’t focused enough but didn’t want just another sewing blog. Seeing Abby’s site has given me the confidence to make my site exactly what I want – which is eclectic incorporating sewing, business, bereavement and in particular women’s health.


When I read about setting up a blog all the information points to focusing on one niche but there is no reason why you can’t make your business exactly what you want and Abby achieves this on her website.



Is there anything else you would like to share?


It has taken me a long time (45 years) to be less self-conscious & not worry about what others may think about what I’m doing – it doesn’t matter what others think as long as you are honest and respectful and believe in yourself.


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Struggling as a mum is something many of us experience when the whole parenting deal does not quite live up to our rose-tinted expectations. The best mums in my opinion are those who are honest about their thoughts and feelings and then go on to help others. One such woman is Sarah from MummyKind a website about the realities of mothering.

Please tell us a little about your childhood and teenage years.
I was born up in Yorkshire, though moved down south when I was about 5 and very quickly lost my Yorkshire accent! My childhood wasn’t the best and neither were my teenage years – I battled with depression from a young age and my family situation was far from ideal, leading me to leave home at 16, but it’s a good job I did because that led me to meet my future husband!
What was your first job/career?
When I was 14 I worked as an office cleaner for a friend’s dad! Oh what a glamorous life I used to lead. I’ve only done part-time work alongside university!
Tell us about becoming a mum and how you feel you have handled that life change?
I always wanted a baby and thought I wouldn’t be able to have one, but that isn’t the case and having one completely put me off ever having another! Becoming a mum was difficult, I hated my pregnancy and suffered PND and anxiety for months afterwards, but now I’ve managed to find my groove and just try to enjoy the good parts (it’s not so easy to enjoy it when your child screams 24/7)
What are you spending your time doing these days?
I’m at university full time while I’m training to become a barrister, and I’m working part-time to help pay for childcare! When I have free time I like to blog or volunteer when I can
What was the reason you started to blog?
The first blogpost I wrote was on my someonecallsmemummy blog, a letter to my 8 week old baby as she was sleeping next to me. I think I just needed an outlet for the emotions I was going through at the time. It was all so overwhelming!
How does blogging help you when you are struggling as a mum?
Even though it’s baby-related, it doesn’t always feel like it. It feels like it’s something fun, something for me to do and it reminds me that I’m a human when I read what other people are going through too. I like to think that maybe Mummykind can help another mum who feels like they’re sinking sometimes.
Are you a fan of collaboration with other bloggers and if so, why?
Our Mummykind blog is one big collaboration – so yes! 6 mummies all sharing experiences of parenting reminds us that everyone’s journeys are different and there is no right or wrong answer
Who has supported you in life?
My amazing husband has been there from day 1 for me. He was there the day I got my A Level results, he was there when I graduated and he’s always supported me as best as he can through my mental health, even though I know he doesn’t really understand it fully.
What are your words of wisdom to a mum who is struggling emotionally?
There’s light at the end of the tunnel, and to get there, you need to drop the guilt. Who cares about the state of your house, how you feed your baby, how the birth went, whether you had a c-section or not, or how you look? Only you, so if you can’t do things how you wanted to, don’t carry the guilt with you.
If you could recommend ONE book to a woman what would it be and why?
Atonement by Ian McEwan – if this doesn’t teach you to change things you’re not happy with before you regret the choices you’ve made then I don’t know what will!
If you could recommend ONE website other than your own to a woman what would it be and why?
Stumbleupon – I love this site because it has ALL THE BLOGS and they’re just on there randomly for you to read at 3am during the night feeds… Honestly, try it out!
Is there anything else you would like to say about struggling as a mum?
If you’re struggling with motherhood, just know that you’re not alone, and seek help as early as you can. You need to get to that place where you can just love being a mum to your little baby!
Oh, and have fun, that’s the number 1 rule of parenting!

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What does being a woman mean to me?


My first instinctive answer is that it means I am different. I guess this is because I was the only daughter in my family with two much older brothers. My mum had always wanted a girl, was unable to have one so adopted me.

As a young girl, I probably played more with boys than girls interestingly always creating myself a role so I could be part of their games.  I remember my Mum turning away the boys as I got older when they came to ask me to play out. I could not understand why but when I get my first period she announced to all the family that I had become a woman. I was upset that it was no longer deemed acceptable to play with the boys but it did mean that my Dad was dispatched to buy cake to mark this momentous womanhood. I have always loved the fact that my period was seen as a milestone to be celebrated.

I did not really think deeply about my place in the world until I became a teenager. My Dad said I just came downstairs one morning ranting and raving about various injustices in the world with the position of women in society being right at the top of the list.

I continued ranting when I went to Cambridge University where women were very much in the minority. Whilst other girls were seeking boyfriends, I was joining and then running women’s groups. I even invited some hapless blokes to come along to be educated! Back then I was so sure of myself in terms of opinions even if not so brave socially or boyfriend seeking wise. I used my womanhood as a reason to join a group where I knew they could not kick me out. Of course I learned a lot about women and the world through women’s group and those harsh facts just made me rant all the more infamously getting the porn removed from WHSmith for a whole day and  arguing we should not have the Sun in the common room.

In the advice world, I saw so many women in a state through mistreatment by men. Wives left with debts where men had signed their signatures. One woman in  particular is on my mind today from my early days as an advice worker. She was a victim of domestic violence and I could not work out why her hands were black and purple with bruises. I went home and Dad explained why. Police officers know these things that people who have not seen domestic violence don’t have to think about most of the time. I hope this woman is alive and living a positive life today. So many are not.

As a woman, I do not think I should have to conform to some media expectation of how I should look, how many hairs I should have on my bits, my underarms or my legs. I don’t actually trip over any of them you know!

As a woman, I wish some women would not reject the term feminism whilst we still have women killed every weeks in their own homes never mind on our streets. We have bigger battles to fight and we should join together until people of every gender and sexuality are treated with respect.

My mum’s hope for me was that she would have instilled backbone into me. That in itself says she knew I would have my own challenges as a woman and indeed we both suffered assault by men on the streets in our time.

My hope for my daughter is that she will respect herself mind, body and soul.

I am a mum. I am not always sure I should have become one as I struggle with many aspects of it. Having said that, I have released two boys and one little woman who have values that will ensure they do not abuse others moving forwards in life. And just possibly, that makes me woman enough.