Father’s Day: Being Dad-tastic in 2020

The comedian, the grill king, the problem fixer — the countless roles he fills is endless, but all in all, we can just refer to him as Dad.

As we approach Father’s Day this year on June 21st, for anyone that may have forgotten, we thought we’d delve deep into what it means to be a dad in 2020, while offering a few tips on excelling in that all important paternal role.

Modern-day dad

Coming to football practice on a Saturday morning when they’ve just came off nightshift, to helping us learn how tectonic plates work ahead of our exam despite not knowing a thing about geography, there is no denying that dads are a pretty special breed.

Even though Mum would inevitably say ‘no’, (which, in all fairness to her, is usually the sensible answer), Dad will often say ‘maybe’.

The special relationship between a father and his child nowadays will, likely, be very different to that of what he had with his father. Today’s dads are found to spend up to three times more time with their kids as dads two generations ago did.

According to a study by Brigham Young University, it became apparent that millennial dads spend more time, provide more care, and are more loving. Meanwhile, Rob Falkowitz of the University of Delaware notes that: “Kids with involved dads thrive and so do the dads.”.

Top tips

Aka Tribesmen in the Central African Republic are depicted as the “best dads in the world, thanks to the fact that when the mums are out hunting, they fill that otherwise maternal void. According to reports, no dads spend more time with their little bambinos than these men.

Although simply being present isn’t always enough. Take football for example — you can have a goalkeeper standing in the net, but if he doesn’t move, goals will still be conceded.

Teach your children about self-esteem

Arguably more important in 2020 than ever before thanks to the sheer dominance that social media plays in young people’s lives, an understanding of the importance of self-esteem is essential.

Remind them of their value. We aren’t suggesting that you spend every minute of every day emphasising their perfection but talking to them and listening to their problems is very important.

Healthy work-life balance

It is also important that you provide for your kids and create a positive environment for them to grow up in. Getting up everyday and putting on your shirts or workwear is important, of course, but so is spending time with the ones you love — don’t allow your job to dictate your relationship with your kids.

Help them discover their passions

Not every child will pick up a wooden spoon for the first time and display the abilities of Mary Berry, nor will they lift a tennis racket and place a top spin on a ball like Roger Federer, but that’s not a problem. Go on that journey with them as they discover what they’re good at and what they’re not.

Don’t make them feel as if they are wasting their time, and help them find something they enjoy doing!

Right from wrong

It’s important to remember that every child requires discipline. Without it they could end up navigating the wrong path in life. Again, this shouldn’t be a surprise but by rewarding good behaviour and penalising bad you will ensure that your child grows up knowing right from wrong.

Most importantly, discipline your kids with love and positivity, in a calm and fair manner.

Be a role model

Whether it’s through Instagram influencers, celebrities, or sports stars, our children have a plethora of options available when it comes to picking role models. However, the number one role models they should have are their parents.

A father should always teach his kids what it means to be respectful, to be loving, to act with humility, and how to be responsible.

Focus on yourself

Even as a parent, you are your own person — don’t let yourself be compared to other dads as every situation is different. This is something that you need to master yourself before passing it on to your kids.

Yes, Peter from No.34 might have a newer car, a bigger house, and take his family on more holidays every year but that doesn’t mean anything — for all you know Peter is repetitively tapping his friends Mr Barclaycard and Mrs Amex.  Do your best, that is all you can do.

Father’s Day in 2020 will be different to any other due to the fact we’re still in lockdown. You won’t be granted your visit to the pub after you’ve been on the receiving end of a wonderful cooked meal, but that creates an opportunity. This year, don’t just see Father’s Day as a day where people are grateful for you, think of all the people you are grateful for, and think just how you can better your dad status ahead of next year!





Award-winning writer, blogger, social media consultant and charity campaigner. Social Media Manager for BritMums, the UK's largest parent blogging network Freelance clients include Firefly Communications and Save the Children UK. Works with brands on marketing projects. Examples include Visit Orlando, Give As You Live, Coca-Cola and Kodak. Cambridge Law graduate with many years experience working across three sectors in advice, media relations, events, training and project management. Available for hire at affordable rates.

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