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If I were ever to write a lonely heart advertisement, what would I put?

Well obviously I am an ageing woman and mum who juggles a lot. Yes there are roots in the hair and yes I could do to lose some more weight. I can be quite shy.

On the positive side of things, I am bright, caring and I think quite humorous with a quick wit and a feisty attitude. Over the years I have learned to like myself a lot. I have a booty that rocks and lovely brown eyes and the wavy hair. I can earn my own money and am passionate about the things I undertake. My children are amazing with great values and they know I love them.

So what would my perfect partner look like if I was in the market? You will understand this is just a little adventure in creative writing.

1. I would like someone who thinks I am fabulous. That is the point of being with someone right?

2. I would like someone who in the old-fashioned way can stick to me and not spend an awful lot of time looking at 2 dimensional images of women. I can’t be 2 dimensional so I will never quite live up to that particular fantasy.

3. I would like someone who loves to converse for hours about all manner of things.

4. I would like someone who touches me when I need reassurance or just to know that I am cared for.

5. I would like someone who shares their interests with me.

6. I would like someone who knows I sometimes need me time and even organizes treats for me from time to time.

7. I would like someone who takes their fair share of household chores.

8. I would like someone who makes me laugh a lot.

9. I would like someone who occasionally does things that I like to do that they don’t particularly because they might learn something or it might be worth giving something a go.

10. And just sometimes and not a lot, I would like flowers or to be treated like a girlfriend.

I thought writing this list would be a complex affair but actually if I was starting over, it is quite a simple list. Too much to ask apparently but simple all the same.

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Kate Davis-Holmes
Award-winning writer, blogger, social media consultant and charity campaigner. Social Media Manager for BritMums, the UK's largest parent blogging network Freelance clients include Firefly Communications and Save the Children UK. Works with brands on marketing projects. Examples include Visit Orlando, Give As You Live, Coca-Cola and Kodak. Cambridge Law graduate with many years experience working across three sectors in advice, media relations, events, training and project management. Available for hire at affordable rates.
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One thought on “Lonely heart

  1. Oh Kate, why is it too much to ask?? Are we women all like this – thinking it’s impossible to have what we’d really like? My daughters tell me we’ve been letting men off too lightly for centuries and I admire their self-belief. I want to believe our hearts don’t have to remain lonely and longing. But do you think this is unrealistic?? X

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