How to Build a Good Relationship with Your Child’s Teacher

A teacher plays a vital role in your child’s education. They spend a huge amount of time with your child and this can have an incredible influence on their happiness at school. For this reason it is extremely important for parents and teachers to build a good relationship and work together effectively.

Good communication with your child’s teacher is essential to your son or daughter’s academic success. The more information parents and teachers share with each other, the more your child will benefit.

Here is some great advice from Taunton School on how to build a successful teacher and parent relationship…

As parents we want our children to make the most of their education and succeed at school. In order for parents to ensure that their child is progressing well at school they must have regular contact with the teacher.

‘Parent Evenings’ are an ideal opportunity for parents and teachers to communicate. Parents can find out more about the subjects being taught in the classroom, and teachers can give advice on how to support learning at home. These events are crucial to your child’s development and should not be missed. Use this valuable time with your child’s teacher to discuss any concerns you may have about your child’s school work or behaviour. If you need some ideas, here are some good tips on preparing for a parent-teacher meeting.

If you need to discuss an important issue and cannot wait until parents evening, it is important to find a suitable time to approach the teacher. Parents often try to speak to teachers in the morning, when they drop their child into class. However, this isn’t always the best time for teachers. They will be busy checking that all of the children have arrived safely and they will need to get organised for the day ahead. Instead, it is best to wait until the end of the day, when all of the children have left; or arrange an appointment with the school office.

It is important for parents to remember that a simple ‘thank you’ can go a long way. Parents can establish a good relationship with a teacher by providing positive feedback. If your child has enjoyed a particular lesson, be sure to let their teacher know. This will show them just how much their hard work is appreciated.

Lastly, it is important to keep a good attendance and punctuality record. This is not only a great life-skill for your child, but it can also help to build a good relationship with the teacher. This is because good attendance shows that both you and your child value their education.



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One Comment

  • Kim Carberry

    I’ve spoken to my youngest girls form teacher a few times on the phone & she’s lovely. She rang today to arrange a review meeting.
    At my girls school if we need to speak to a teacher we leave a note in her planner and the teacher rings me. It works really well x

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